Explaining "The light is on but nobody is home"
Reviewed and edited by
Lloyd Cooper 07/04/2025, 23:17
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What does it mean?

The phrase means that someone appears to be physically present but is mentally absent, inattentive, or not understanding what's happening.
Tone
Humorous and slightly derogatory
Origin
The exact origin is unknown, but the phrase is a common idiom in English-speaking cultures that likely emerged as a figurative expression in the mid-20th century.
Examples of usage
- I tried explaining the simple concept to him, but the light is on but nobody is home.
- When she didn't respond to the question, it felt like the light is on but nobody is home.
- Talking to him is difficult—the light is on but nobody is home.